Thursday, April 19, 2012

Again??

She had a meltdown this morning. Again. I had to decide what to do. Again. I wondered WHAT to do. Again. Do you ever feel like this? Like you have to tread on eggshells. Again. Or you must remember to be as literal as possible. Again. My daughter is 13. She's already hit puberty, hormones and all. Thus, I've also had to teach her the finer points of shaving. She's been shaving for over a year now. Last night I told her to shave her legs and arms when she took her shower. She agreed to shave her legs and then said, "I don't know how to shave my arms. You never showed me how.". It took me a minute to figure out that while I was thinking 'under arms' my daughter was thinking of her literal entire arm! Needed to think in black and white terms. Again. This morning, while I know she is very tired, I did make sure to give her a literal time for when I wanted her to do something. Well, evidently that's not good enough for when your Aspie child is completely exhausted. We had a meltdown. Again. I wonder I'd I'll ever have a moment where I don't have to think "Again??" with her but whether or not I do, God evidently gave this child to ME, and my husband, for a reason. And so I take heart in the Scriptures that encourage us to: "Do not grow weary in doing good" And "Come to Me all who are weary and I will give you rest." Along with "In this world you will have trouble but take heart for I have overcome the world." So, even if I have to deal with another meltdown, again, or wonder what to do, again, I know that the God of the Universe understands and He has put you here as well. We are not alone in this! We have each other. So, welcome, friends! Be strong and courageous! And when you can't be strong on your own, lean on Him. He can handle anything you throw His way. -Noble

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This blog is simply my attempt to encourage and support those who find themselves suddenly on the journey through Aspergers. Please be supportive of everyone. If you just need to vent your frustration, please let us know that's what you're doing. HOWEVER, NO FOUL LANGUAGE OR MISUSE OF THE LORD'S NAME WILL BE TOLERATED.

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-Noble